Friday, December 31, 2010
Did you hear the news story heralded throughout the media today? The famous Wild West outlaw Billy the Kid will not receive a pardon from outgoing New Mexico Governor Bill Richardson.
More than 100 years ago the then Governor had promised the outlaw a pardon. However, Richardson says Billy killed two deputies after that promise, and it was those additional crimes which was key in his decision not to offer the pardon posthumously.
To Billy the Kid, it really doesn't matter the pardon isn't being offered. He's dead, it won't do him any good now.
The offer of forgiveness has an expiration date. It is valid for the living. There comes a time when the clock runs out and the only thing we're left with are the fullness of our circumstances without any pardon. In other words, justice is all that's left to face.
As with the Governor, God doesn't grant posthumous pardons. To come to an end of this life without truly receiving God's forgiveness is to enter into an eternity facing the justice and judgment of a righteous Creator.
What a miserable life it is to live hoping to eek out a pardon in the "nick of time." That is not "extraordinary living."
As we usher in a New Year, I'd like to suggest that a great way to receive a New Year from God --- a real way to live extraordinarily in the coming year --- is to live within the forgiveness of God now. Of course, that would mean we would have to give up our lawless ways for submission and obedience to God. Forgiveness cannot be offered when the outlaw is still on the run.
On this, the last day of 2010, what better time to surrender. To bring to and end our disobedience and embrace the pardon offered through Jesus Christ. Doing so will bring an extraordinary new year tomorrow.
One of the blessings of 2010 for me has been the interaction with the many readers of this blog, "Extraordinary Living."
Although not a lot of comments are posted to the blog (feel free to do so!), I often hear from many of you regarding blog posts via Twitter, Facebook and email, and I have greatly enjoyed the interaction and your sharing with me.
I hope 2010 is ending well for you, and pray for God's richest blessings in your lives in the coming year. I look forward to sharing and interacting with you in the New Year!
Tuesday, December 28, 2010
The football game between the Dallas Cowboys and the Arizona Cardinals on Christmas Day was a thriller. The Cardinals pulled off a successful field goal by Jay Feely in the last five seconds of the game to squeak out a 27-26 win.
I happen to be an Arizona Cardinals (and San Francisco 49ers) fan, but I'm living just outside of Dallas. My location isn't enough to change my team loyalties.
While living in Arizona as a kid, I grew up watching the Dallas Cowboys. At the time, Arizona didn't have a professional football team, so a lot of the Cowboys games were broadcast. You could say my first football "fan" experience went to the Cowboys. But not any more.
It would make sense for me to be a Cowboys fan based on location. But there's one problem: the Cowboys aren't a very good team!
They have improved some since the coaching change this season, but the Cowboys haven't been the Cowboys I grew up with in a long time. And the change hasn't been for the better. Simply put, people don't like to cheer for a bad team (unless you're a Cubs fan).
The same is true for churches.
I'm convinced many, many people would embrace the kind of God we say we serve. The problem is, they just don't see that God adequately reflected in His family. Some of the "teams" (local churches) are really quite poor. Many practice --- at best --- a mediocre faith, and are happy with that. But people are not attracted to mediocrity, they are drawn to excellence.
There is nothing compelling about a life that claims faith, yet is as empty, broken, and misguided as the rest. There's nothing attractive about powerless, doubt-plagued, and fear-ridden lifestyles.
There's nothing that draws us to a losing team ... whether it's on the field of football or the field of life.
By reading the end of the Bible, we see God wins. Big time! And so do those who serve Him. But by looking at some local churches, you would never tell they are a part of a winning team.
Jesus taught that an effective way to draw praise for God from those still "sitting in the stands" is to shine as a winning team. He described it this way:
"14 'You are the light of the world—like a city on a hilltop that cannot be hidden. 15 No one lights a lamp and then puts it under a basket. Instead, a lamp is placed on a stand, where it gives light to everyone in the house. 16 In the same way, let your good deeds shine out for all to see, so that everyone will praise your heavenly Father'." (Matthew 5:14-16).
What is it about your life in Christ that draws the attention of others? How does your church excel and act as a compelling, vibrant community of faith? Or are you satisfied sitting on the bench of a mediocre team?
Monday, December 27, 2010
"Close your eyes and see" is the tantalizing catch phrase for "Opaque," a new kind of eatery with locations in San Francisco, Los Angeles, and San Diego.
Closing your eyes heightens sensations, but really isn't necessary considering the niche that Opaque fills is an opportunity for diners to eat in the dark.
Pitch-black kind of dark.
The experience is especially a draw to "foodies" and daters, who say the sense of taste and texture are heightened in the dark, and couples on a date focus on personality instead of physical appearance. Since we tend to first "eat with our eyes," and make several conclusions about people based on what they look like, having a night out with someone over dinner --- in total darkness --- changes how you assess both the food and the company.
Part of the concept behind Opaque is that sometimes the experience can be richer when you aren't always going by visuals.
Jesus once said something similar. We read in John 20:29, "Then Jesus told him, 'You believe because you have seen me. Blessed are those who believe without seeing me'."
We tend to draw our perceptions about Jesus Christ from the things we can see, and the "concrete" aspects of our relationship with Him. Yet, the experience can be richer when we tap into real faith, that of experiencing and trusting what isn't always immediately visible, nevertheless very real.
How reliant are you on your sight in your relationship with Christ? How do you limit your faith to the visual? How can you deepen your experience with Christ to a genuine faith that goes beyond what your eyes can see?
Sunday, December 26, 2010
It used to be one way you could spot a "learned man" was by the obvious: an office overflowing with books.
But that was then ...
Today, with the onslaught of e-book readers, it could be possible the future private libraries of "learned men" will be the ultra-thin electronic devices that are becoming increasingly popular. Instead of shelves loaded with books, the physical evidence of study will be stored out of sight electronically.
In that case, the way of spotting a "learned man" will be by his life.
But that's the way it was always supposed to be.
It is of no benefit for any person to have a library consisting of thousands of volumes if there isn't any growing, developing, maturing, and impacting the life of the student. The purpose of learning isn't to build the theoretical capacities of a person, but the practical maturing as lived out in the exercise of knowledge, that leads to understanding, and is finally expressed in its highest form: wisdom.
God's design is that we grow up, that we mature, and that maturity be shown by how we live out our lives. The Apostle Paul expressed it this way in Ephesians 4:13-15:
"13 This will continue until we all come to such unity in our faith and knowledge of God’s Son that we will be mature in the Lord, measuring up to the full and complete standard of Christ. 14 Then we will no longer be immature like children. We won’t be tossed and blown about by every wind of new teaching. We will not be influenced when people try to trick us with lies so clever they sound like the truth. 15 Instead, we will speak the truth in love, growing in every way more and more like Christ, who is the head of his body, the church."
As we look to the start of a new year, it's a fitting time to assess how we're doing in our spiritual growth. Are we "... growing in every way more and more like Christ"? What do we need to do in the New Year to mature as children of God? There's still a few days left in 2010 to put together a personal plan for how you can dig deeper, draw closer, and live out a more mature likeness of Christ in 2011.
Friday, December 24, 2010
It's an old story line. We've seen it on television, in the movies and read it in books.
You know, the story of someone opening their front door to discover a baby had been left abandoned on the front porch.
Such a situation would be an "easy fix" today. One call to Child Protective Services and the baby would be picked up and whisked away in no time.
A few years back, a couple who are very close friends talked to me about taking their kids. No, they weren't trying to give them away. They had started traveling more often and, in consideration of the "what if our plane crashed" scenarios, they asked if I would legally take and raise their children if something happened to them. Of course I would, so off to their attorney's office they went.
It's likely none of us have given any, or little, thought to what we would do if we were suddenly given a person. After all, when was the last time you were offered a human being as a gift?
But it has actually happened.
To every single one of us.
The reality of Christmas is that God gave to the world ... to us ... a Person. He has given us His Son. It's actually not an optional gift, He has been given!
"16 For God loved the world so much that he gave his one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life. 17 God sent his Son into the world not to judge the world, but to save the world through him" (John 3:16-17).
It's what you do with the gift of Jesus Christ that is impacting to your life ... and your eternity.
My prayer is that you have received God's gift, and that you have a blessed and Merry Christmas!
Wednesday, December 22, 2010
This Christmas Eve, at many candlelight Communion services, it will become very still while many are moved deeply as they listen to someone sing, "Silent night, holy night, all is calm, all is bright ..."
But it wasn't quite so quiet that very first Christmas night.
As the Word became flesh (John 1:14), an angel just had to tell someone. The angel proclaimed the grand wonder of the birth of Christ to shepherds. Heaven became so excited by the angel's proclamation that the armies of God burst out in praise! Just look how loud that first Christmas was, as described in Luke 2:
"8 That night there were shepherds staying in the fields nearby, guarding their flocks of sheep. 9 Suddenly, an angel of the Lord appeared among them, and the radiance of the Lord’s glory surrounded them. They were terrified, 10 but the angel reassured them. 'Don’t be afraid!' he said. 'I bring you good news that will bring great joy to all people. 11 The Savior—yes, the Messiah, the Lord—has been born today in Bethlehem, the city of David! 12 And you will recognize him by this sign: You will find a baby wrapped snugly in strips of cloth, lying in a manger."
"13 Suddenly, the angel was joined by a vast host of others—the armies of heaven—praising God and saying,
"14 Glory to God in highest heaven,
and peace on earth to those with whom God is pleased.”
From that time forward, many would be so moved by Christ they simply would have to tell others. We see it in Acts 4, as Peter and John are warned to stop teaching in the name of Jesus. Their response to the religious leaders is recorded in verses 19 and 20:
"19 But Peter and John replied, 'Do you think God wants us to obey you rather than him? 20 We cannot stop telling about everything we have seen and heard'."
When we see what God has done in the giving of His Son as a Savior for the world, we are compelled to tell others of such immeasurable love and grace, and it moves us not to silence but to loud praise and rejoicing!
Is this how you share Christmas ... by telling others of God's gift of His Son? As you consider Christmas, does it stir you to rejoicing and praising God? Or is it just another silent, calm night?
Tuesday, December 21, 2010
Armed with an array of case law, Napolitano details 17 specific "lies" perpetrated ... and perpetuated ... by our government. In doing so, he takes the reader through deep political territory. Napolitano's views often tend to support liberal political leanings, then suddenly he veers right, then winds his way (often) into libertarian territory, castigating American politicians from some of the Founding Fathers, to Abraham Lincoln, up to the most current presidential administrations.
The outcome is that no political figure is safe from Napolitano's accusations of lying to the American public. People of all political persuasions will find times where they agree with the Judge on certain topics and strongly disagree on others. What I appreciated most was the few times Napolitano so aptly detailed a point that he caused me to think more deeply about some of his claims, and moved a few of my opinions from where they started prior to reading this book.
But I also think Napolitano makes the classic political error of calling a "lie" the views or actions taken by some who have a different political philosophy than he does. And by finding most any American leader throughout our history to be liars, it makes you wonder if there is a government Napolitano would actually be happy with.
But Napolitano provides a great service with this book by helping the average reader see that our government isn't so trustworthy as it routinely proclaims itself as being. Lies have, and continue, to be told to the public quite routinely by the government. Understanding that, and how it wears away our freedom, is the best lesson Napolitano provides, regardless of your political persuasions.
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Thursday, December 16, 2010
Rarely will you see me pass along a platitude. I thoroughly dislike most of them because they are usually composed of a kernel of truth attached to untruth.
Which reminds me of the comparison of life being a grand buffet. If we're going to go there, then we have to say in life we are offered two buffets.
First, is the "grand buffet" offered by the world.
The world's buffet truly is grand. It's stacked with everything. There's filet mignon and every kind of steak you can imagine. There's lobster, crab galore, and piles of shrimp. Fish of every kind. Everything comes with an option of bacon. There's cheesecake, every known chocolate, and lots of ice cream. There's banana pudding and hot chocolate. And coffee. Lots of coffee.
The world's buffet has every kind of savory and sweet morsel, and we're encouraged to indulge until we just can't stand it anymore. Then go back for seconds.
Across from the world's grand buffet is God's buffet.
At God's buffet, there is simply bread and a cup of wine.
Luke 22:14-20 gives us the story behind the buffet:
"14 When the time came, Jesus and the apostles sat down together at the table. 15 Jesus said, 'I have been very eager to eat this Passover meal with you before my suffering begins. 16 For I tell you now that I won’t eat this meal again until its meaning is fulfilled in the Kingdom of God.' 17 Then he took a cup of wine and gave thanks to God for it. Then he said, 'Take this and share it among yourselves. 18 For I will not drink wine again until the Kingdom of God has come.' 19 He took some bread and gave thanks to God for it. Then he broke it in pieces and gave it to the disciples, saying, 'This is my body, which is given for you. Do this to remember me.' 20 After supper he took another cup of wine and said, 'This cup is the new covenant between God and his people—an agreement confirmed with my blood, which is poured out as a sacrifice for you'."
From which buffet do you draw your sustenance?
Tuesday, December 14, 2010
Ask 100 people what they would like to be and likely a few among the group would respond, "I'd like to be a ninja."
For some reason, there is a growing fascination with these aloof, highly agile warriors. Even the corporate world has taken up the use of the term "ninja" for highly specialized positions. And now, there is a growing audience for the popular television show "American Ninja Warrior."
I just recently discovered the show, which draws masses of highly skilled amateur athletes to participate in a series of rigorous obstacle courses to earn the title "ninja warrior." The competition is made up of three stages. The first stage starts with 100 challengers, most of whom will fail to complete the obstacle course and will quickly find themselves in a pool of water after falling in their attempt. The few who make it through the first stage will advance to the second stage, featuring an even harder set of obstacles to commandeer. Fewer make it through the second stage, but those who do move on to the third and final stage. Almost no one has the physical strength and agility to complete the third stage. You really have to be a "ninja" to conquer stage three.
While watching the show, a challenger who had made it to stage two on three different occasions was favored to advance to stage three. But he rushed his effort during stage two and fell, knocking him out of the competition. After his fall, he stated to the television commentator, "I became careless because I'm so used to this stage."
His comment reminded me of how we often approach Christmas.
We have heaped multiple personal, family and other "traditions" onto "Christmas" that it has become something we're so used to that we just rush through the experience, often failing to achieve out of it what God intended. We've made Christmas so laden with identical experiences that they have become wooden.
The Christmas tree goes in the same corner, to be decorated with the same ornaments while singing the same carols and partaking of the same snacks. We watch the same holiday programs and shop at the same places and go to the same parties.
On January 1, we already know much of what we will be doing for Christmas at the end of the new year.
We've become "... so used to this stage ..." of the year we run through it on auto pilot and miss the wonder and glory of the purpose behind the season.
That purpose was God offering Himself as a Savior to the world. How does that fit into your Christmas?
Friday, December 10, 2010
Any of us can understand the idea of "do the right thing because it's the right thing to do" even if we don't actually do it. Doing the right thing because it is right should be, in itself, our reward.
Yet many live their lives doing things to receive rewards. We human beings tend to be reward-oriented thinkers. Another term that often means the same thing is "selfish."
But not always!
While we tend to struggle with being overly self- and rewards- oriented, it's interesting to see how the Bible reveals that it is important to God for Him to give rewards to His children.
From the beginning of God's interaction with His creation, we see God saying He wants to provide a great life for us, and if we do "x, y and z ..." He will reward us with ...
God promised Noah rewards ...
He promised Abraham rewards ...
He promised Israel rewards ...
He promised multiple other persons we read about in scripture various rewards ...
... and He promises rewards to anyone who surrenders their life to Him.
God desires to reward us! He wants us to live in relationship with Him in such a way that results in a lavish response from Him.
One person who had somewhat of a grip on this concept was King David, the guy described in scripture as being a man "... after God's own heart ..." From that simple description, we think the great things David did were always entirely motivated by his love for God.
It wasn't that simple for David.
When young David showed up at the standoff between Israel and Philistine as recorded in 1 Samuel 17, we see something interesting in verses 26-30. David hears about the great reward offered to whoever takes out Goliath, the Philistine champion. If you notice, David does not say, "That doesn't mean anything to me, I'm a spiritual guy and just want to make God smile." Instead, note in the following verses how David asks a couple times for specific details of what kind of reward will be given for the guy who whips Goliath ...
"26 David asked the soldiers standing nearby, 'What will a man get for killing this Philistine and ending his defiance of Israel? Who is this pagan Philistine anyway, that he is allowed to defy the armies of the living God?' 27 And these men gave David the same reply. They said, 'Yes, that is the reward for killing him.' 28 But when David’s oldest brother, Eliab, heard David talking to the men, he was angry. 'What are you doing around here anyway?' he demanded. 'What about those few sheep you’re supposed to be taking care of? I know about your pride and deceit. You just want to see the battle!' 29 'What have I done now?' David replied. 'I was only asking a question!' 30 He walked over to some others and asked them the same thing and received the same answer."
When you read the story in context, we see David was not primarily motivated to stand for God before Goliath and the Philistine army for the selfish reason of reward, he stood as God's man for the time. But he also understood that sometimes "doing the right thing" comes with reward in excess of God's smile.
Like David, God desires we "do the right thing" because it's the right thing to do, from a right heart. Yet He also provides additional motivation, especially for when doing the right thing can be extremely costly. He speaks to us over and over again in the New Testament about the reward to come for all those who trust in and obey Him. What we don't see in the Bible is instruction to pursue reward; rather, we're commanded to pursue God with all our love and being, and then are encouraged that God desires to reward that love. Reward is attached to relationship, as clearly seen in Colossians 3:1-4:
"1 Since you have been raised to new life with Christ, set your sights on the realities of heaven, where Christ sits in the place of honor at God’s right hand. 2 Think about the things of heaven, not the things of earth. 3 For you died to this life, and your real life is hidden with Christ in God. 4 And when Christ, who is your life, is revealed to the whole world, you will share in all his glory."
The concept is the relational principle of a child and parent. The child loves his father and wants to make him proud. Beyond that, the father will reward the child for living well and doing right. While the child may appreciate the promise of reward, the driving motivation is the loving relationship with the father.
It's the same with our heavenly Father. Because of our love for God, we are committed to a life obedient to Him. We also understand that God will reward us for our commitment to Him, yet it's the "Well done ..." we receive as we enter into His presence that means more than anything! When we place reward ahead of relationship, the result is a version of "Christian hedonism," pursuing the pleasures of reward through acts of "obedience."
I love the way scripture itself gives us a great perspective of reward. In Revelation 4, we see the picture of the Lord on His throne, surrounded by (among others) 24 elders. You can see some of the reward these elders have received ... they are sitting on thrones with a front row seat to the presence of God, and they're wearing gold crowns. Great stuff, right? The picture continues with the 24 elders falling down in worship of the Lord, and removing those golden crowns and placing them before the Lord as they state how He is the One worthy of praise. The thrones and crowns were nice, but they are less than trinkets compared to the presence of God! These elders thought nothing of handing back those crowns in an act of worship.
It's not the reward, it's the relationship. And for the relationship, God will reward.
Don't undervalue the reward. It is important to God that He reward you. He wants to reward you! But the pursuit is the presence of God, not the prize of the crown.
Is God alone enough for you? Or are you reaching for something beyond God by trying to go through Him?
Every year at Christmas, my mother performed a miracle.
Some way, some how, she managed to make Christmas almost a "magical" experience for all eight --- yes, eight! --- of her children. I have never figured out how she did it. She must have started saving and shopping on December 26.
Being people of very meager means, our Christmases weren't extravagant. Yet, every Christmas always turned out to be more than we kids expected. Every year, we thought we would be lucky to get a toy each, yet my mother always surpassed that. We each usually got a gift of significance to us, and then a few other simpler items, so we were always surprised and humbled that it was more than we could have hoped for.
Even though Mom always worked her holiday magic, there was one Christmas that really stood out. That was the "BIG" Christmas.
As was our tradition, all of us kids were awake early and by 3 a.m. we were begging our parents to let us get up to open our presents. With permission given, we stampeded down the hallway into the living room. And there by the Christmas tree was my very first bicycle!
I could not believe it! My youngest sister also had a bicycle there ... but there was a brand new bike for me?!
It wasn't just any bike, mind you. It was a "cool" bike. It was maroon with a black "banana" seat with two "racing" stripes and a very long chrome bar on the back. From the moment I first sat on it, I couldn't wait to get it outside and start cruising the neighborhood. Unfortunately, I had to wait patiently to experience the Christmas morning with my family. When, finally, all the gifts were open and everyone except for my mother and I had returned to their beds for a little more sleep, I was finally given permission to take my new bike out for it's maiden voyage.
That was a BIG Christmas. My mother had really outdone herself!
As I think of how my mother took care of us every day, and yet still gave something extra special, it makes me think of my heavenly Father.
Throughout history, God has been the greatest giver. He has cared for and supplied all our needs. Yet there was a time when God went "BIG." It was that very first Christmas, when God gave Himself to humanity. God wanted each of us to have Him!
On that very first Christmas, God gave us a Savior. Now that is going big! At that first Christmas, God exceeded everything He had given us before by offering Himself as a Savior to the world. That's greater than giving us our daily bread, protecting us from enemies, or just putting up with our selfishness.
God came to be a sacrifice on behalf of sinful humanity. The holy for the sinful. There is no bigger giving than that!
The biggest thing we could ever give is to give back to God the life He has given each of us. Now that would be really going big for Christmas!
Wednesday, December 8, 2010
A breaking news item caught my attention today. It read: "A bus driver had a seizure and hit four cars while driving in the Lincoln Tunnel; no life-threatening injuries."
What a sad story. Can you imagine how life quickly changed for that bus driver? Not only does he now have a very real health issue to contend with, this incident could possibly cost him his job. He won't be able to be a bus driver if there is any possibility he will continue to suffer from seizures. In just a moment today, his life got turned upside down.
How the bus driver deals with the trauma he is now facing depends on a few things.
First is the answer to who God is in his life. If he has a personal relationship with his Creator, he will have all the power a human could hope for in dealing with anything life can throw at us. But if he doesn't, he's on his own to try to find peace in a world freshly broken for him.
Whether or not he has true support in his life will matter. Does he have family or friends who see and respond to his new needs? Are there people in his life to help him face the fear the health issue will likely bring? Does he have a spouse who can help with a potentially changing financial situation? Are there friends who will come alongside and offer love and comfort in a moment of turmoil?
Will his employer see a good employee who has a personal difficulty to overcome and offer reassignment in a different position that would be safe for him, and he's capable of succeeding at?
And finally, but certainly not least, how flexible is his mind about life? What I mean by that is, many people live their lives in "cement." They are so entrenched in everything staying the same, it is significantly traumatic when changes come, especially if it's sudden and unexpected. However, others have learned to live life with a flexibility ... they don't mind taking a new route to work every now and then, they'll try something different for dinner, they don't keep the same style for 30 years, or insist on sitting in the same place at church every Sunday. They flex with the times, and even the moments, and welcome the changing scene as life's daily little adventures. This type of person will be better equipped to absorb the impact of sudden change.
Life can change in a moment. And at some time in our lives, each of us will have a moment of trauma when what we previously put out of the realm of possibility in our minds suddenly becomes our new reality. How we deal with that trauma will depend heavily on what we believe, and the existing relationships we have developed. That combination will be key to recovering from the trauma.
Have you made life a matter of walking in cement ... of being stuck in the same ways all the time? Or have you embraced life as a constantly changing series of experiences to be lived fully? Have you developed solid relationships that will withstand the tough events of life? Are you ready for change, or will you collapse when the unexpected becomes your reality?
Saturday, December 4, 2010
Are you a ripper or a wrapper and bow saver?
Some people I know open their Christmas presents with great care because they save the wrapping paper and bows for reuse. That's not how I learned to open presents as a kid. Me and my seven siblings took pride in just how fast we could get a gift ripped open! Forget the wrapping, we wanted to get to what was inside!
That's harder to do these days. With the kind of packaging items come in today, you very nearly need a freshly sharpened hedge trimmer to free the contents from its package. Products today are packaged more to keep thieves out than to allow buyers in!
I sometimes wonder if that isn't how we "package" the church ... more about keeping in who's already there than to welcome and bring in those who are outside.
The Apostle Paul was a "ripper." He tore away anything that kept those outside of Christ from coming to Christ. Paul explained his methods this way:
"19 Even though I am a free man with no master, I have become a slave to all people to bring many to Christ. 20 When I was with the Jews, I lived like a Jew to bring the Jews to Christ. When I was with those who follow the Jewish law, I too lived under that law. Even though I am not subject to the law, I did this so I could bring to Christ those who are under the law. 21 When I am with the Gentiles who do not follow the Jewish law, I too live apart from that law so I can bring them to Christ. But I do not ignore the law of God; I obey the law of Christ. 22 When I am with those who are weak, I share their weakness, for I want to bring the weak to Christ. Yes, I try to find common ground with everyone, doing everything I can to save some. 23 I do everything to spread the Good News and share in its blessings" (1 Corinthians 9:19-23).
Paul "packaged" himself to attract others to the Gospel, tearing away anything that would hinder anyone from clearly accessing the Gospel message. His intent had a simple focus, found in verse 23: "I do everything to spread the Good News and share in its blessings."
Are you building bridges to share the Gospel, or making it difficult for non-believers to find Christ? How can you clear away impediments to the Gospel so that others might be saved?
It seems like every year, at about this time, hoards of Christians come out of the woodwork complaining how non-believers are "taking Christ out of Christmas," railing against the use of "xmas" in place of the real word, and generally being louder than they often are the rest of the year.
One Christian friend recently posted a comment saying he doesn't care about the "xmas" argument, there's far more important things to be focused on, and let's just enjoy the season.
I can understand his sentiment in that there are many important issues in this world to give our attention to. But I disagree with his dismissal about the issue of identifying Christmas because I think he's on the wrong side of the argument.
Because Christmas is entirely about Christ!
Christmas has absolutely NOTHING to do with family or personal traditions, giving or receiving gifts, decorations, food feasts, office parties, or any other thing we associate with this this time of year. Christmas is wholly about God sending His Son into this world to provide salvation for all humankind.
The problem is that far too many Christians have taken Christ out of Christmas every bit as much as non-believers have, even if they refer to this time of year as "Christmas." When our focus is on the trappings of the holiday, rather than the giving of Christ to the world, we're missing the point as much as anyone else. If that's the case, we call Christmas anything we want, because it really isn't a "mass for Christ."
Keeping the word "Christ" in the name of the holiday can be important in reminding the world what it is we're celebrating. But actually bringing Christ to the world, and truly celebrating Him, is what is of ultimate importance.
It does matter that we not "x" out Christ from Christmas. That is done far more by what we do and how we live, than by what we call a holiday.
Are you living out Christmas, or celebrating a holiday?
Tuesday, November 30, 2010
You're starving (not literally, of course, just the American version which means you're simply hungry).
You're in the kitchen making a sandwich. You can hardly contain yourself as you lather on the condiments, pile on the toppings, and finally slap on the top piece of bread.
As you wrestle to wrap your hands around the breadth of the bulging sandwich, lifting it to your salivating mouth, the unthinkable happens ... you drop the sandwich on the kitchen floor!
In utter astonishment, you stare at the sandwich now scattered on the floor.
What to do?
You quickly invoke the "five second rule," scoop up the sandwich, do a quick fix, and take a huge bite as you contentedly move along.
You're satisfied because the five second rule saved the day! You know, the "rule" that says if you drop food, it's still clean if it's not on the ground or floor for more than five seconds.
The five seconds rule is just a mental game to get around the truth that we still want to eat the food, regardless of knowing where its been. But instead of admitting to ourselves that we would eat food dirtied from the ground, we invoke a falsehood (the five seconds rule) to soothe our minds from the reality of our choices.
We counselors call such behavior cognitive dissonance.
Cognitive dissonance is that uncomfortable feeling of holding conflicting ideas simultaneously. The theory goes that we human beings have a tendency to seek consistency among our cognitions (beliefs, opinions, etc.). When there is an inconsistency between attitudes or behaviors (dissonance), something must change to eliminate the dissonance. In the case of a discrepancy between attitudes and behaviors, it is most likely the attitude will change to accommodate the behavior.
Cognitive dissonance sprang onto the scene of human behavior all the way back in the Garden of Eden, when the first man and woman brought sin into the world. They both knew the clear and specific instructions God had given them, yet they both chose to disobey His instructions. When God visited them in the Garden after their Fall, they made excuses for their behavior being in conflict with what they knew to be the truth.
In other words, negative cognitive dissonance resulted in their making excuses to God for their sin.
Our behaviors haven't varied a lot from that time in the Garden. Like the first man and woman, we continue to struggle with cognitive dissonance in our own lives. But from before that Fall of humanity in the Garden, God had a plan for how we could be made whole from the results of sin in our lives. God worked out His plan through the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ, and through Him we can be changed. Look at what the Apostle Paul wrote in Ephesians 4:21-23:
"21 Since you have heard about Jesus and have learned the truth that comes from him, 22 throw off your old sinful nature and your former way of life, which is corrupted by lust and deception. 23 Instead, let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes. 24 Put on your new nature, created to be like God—truly righteous and holy."
We overcome the struggle with cognitive dissonance by allowing the Holy Spirit to transform our thoughts and attitudes, which then results in behaviors that are Christlike, "... truly righteous and holy." The Holy Spirit enables and empowers us as transformed children of God to harmonize our thoughts and behaviors rather than feed unhealthy and ungodly conflicts created and fed from our minds.
That doesn't necessarily mean the next time you drop the sandwich that you won't pick it up and eat it anyway. But it should mean you won't lie to yourself about the fact that you're eating food off the floor!
Have you allowed the Holy Spirit to transform your thoughts and attitudes? Or do you justify your way of living through the inconsistencies of cognitive dissonance?
Monday, November 29, 2010
Even though I write reviews of books published by Thomas Nelson, this book wasn't one provided to me to review (although it is a Thomas Nelson publication).
I had heard of Austin Gutwein and the incredible Hoops of Hope ministry he founded through my connections at Central Christian Church of the East Valley in Arizona. At the age of nine, God gave Austin a vision for how he could do something bigger than himself. This boy stepped out in faith, and, by God working through him, he has accomplished some incredible things for the HIV/AIDS orphans and victims in Zambia.
"Take Your Best Shot" is Austin (with the help of Todd Hillard) telling his story of how the Hoops of Hope ministry began, and what God has done through it. But the book is more than just telling this story. It's also a great challenge to the readers to also do something bigger than themselves, and an ample dose of inspiration to do just that.
Not only is this book a great read for any adult, but older children and, especially teens, really need to hear this story and this challenge.
At the top of the book cover is a quote by famous Christian writer and pastor Max Lucado, which says simply, "This story deserves a wide hearing." I couldn't agree more!
While a book isn't the most exciting Christmas gift for many, this would make a terrific gift to give to teens, young adults, and any adult. The story and the challenge could result in an indescribable gift to the reader. Also, check out the ministry website at www.hoopsofhope.org.
Thursday, November 25, 2010
Television changed recently.
No longer can you get free television by having a cheap antenna mounted to the roof of your house. Now you have to have a means of receiving digital television.
When I was a kid, "rabbit ears" were central to getting good television reception. But rabbit ears could be tricky. You often had to move the "ears" to just the right spot atop your television set, and play with telescoping the rabbit ears up and down (as well as horizontally and vertically) before you found a clear picture. Some people even resorted to wrapping aluminum foil around the rabbit ears in an effort to enhance reception.
It sounds silly, but you really didn't get a clear picture without those rabbit ears.
I think thanksgiving is like those rabbit ears. It really isn't until we look closely at the love and sacrifice given by Jesus Christ for us, and respond with a natural outpouring of thanksgiving, that we really see our Savior clearly.
When we look honestly at the mercy, grace, love, salvation, and the personal relationship lavished upon us by Jesus Christ, we cannot contain ourselves. We're moved to the deepest depths of gratitude. And the giving of thanks flows from us as a natural part of worship.
That's because when you have a clear picture of what Jesus Christ has done for you, you simply cannot not be thankful.
Psalm 100:4-5 encourages us to:
"4 Enter his gates with thanksgiving;
go into his courts with praise.
Give thanks to him and praise his name.
5 For the Lord is good.
His unfailing love continues forever,
and his faithfulness continues to each generation."
When we see His goodness, experience His love and faithfulness, it's like finding that sweet spot with the rabbit ears ... things become clear, and we become thankful!
May God bless your Thanksgiving Day with crystal clear reception!
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
When I first started reading the book, I didn't think that would be my final conclusion. But the book, compiled by distinguished Christian apologist Ravi Zacharias (who did some of the writing and was joined by noted members of his international ministry), is loaded with skill-building knowledge for the Christian who wants to win people rather than arguments.
Initially, I thought it rather arrogant of Zacharias to write in the introduction, "This may not be a 'read-through' book that can be absorbed in a single sitting. But I suggest to you it is a 'must-read' book for our times ..." but I soon discovered Zacharias was right on both counts (even if he did "say so" himself!).
Getting into the book is slow going. I found the early chapters to be so laden with foundational information it seemed as if the writer was cutting corners to contain the chapters. That made for a choppy read, almost as if the work was the result of a poor edit job.
However --- and fortunately for that "however" --- the remainder of the book smoothed out into a readable flow chalk full of great insights about sharing and defending the Christian faith. These insights do not make for light reading. The material Zacharias and his co-writers present is the real, heavy-duty content of apologetics ranging from how to help the non-believer who has genuine questions about Christianity, to defending against the "enemies" who try their best to destroy our faith.
It is precisely because "Beyond Opinion" (published by Thomas Nelson) is not just another light-weight book on apologetics that I highly recommend it. The writers pull out all the "big words" and intellectual terms in the material they present, yet manage to provide readers of various backgrounds knowledge and insights understandable for anyone ranging from the new Christian to the experienced church leader.
If you're serious about sharing your Christian faith, this is a serious resource that can better help you do that.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Thomas Nelson Publishers as part of their BookSneeze.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”
Monday, November 22, 2010
Sometimes when I read about the ancient Israelites in the Old Testament, I want to bang my head against the wall!
How is it that God's chosen people could continue in these cycles of sin? After all the phenomenal things God had done for them, along with His great promises, they continue to turn from God to idols.
What really seems stunning is the story in Numbers 13 when God leads His people to the Promised Land. Moses sent 12 spies into this new land to check things out. The scouting report confirmed that "... it is indeed a bountiful country—a land flowing with milk and honey..." (Numbers 13:27b). Yet 10 of the spies added their fear to the report by saying, "But the people living there are powerful, and their towns are large and fortified. We even saw giants there, the descendants of Anak!" (Numbers 13:28) and "We can’t go up against them! They are stronger than we are!' 32 So they spread this bad report about the land among the Israelites: 'The land we traveled through and explored will devour anyone who goes to live there. All the people we saw were huge. 33 We even saw giants there, the descendants of Anak. Next to them we felt like grasshoppers, and that’s what they thought, too!'" (Numbers13:31b-33).
When the Israelites thought their security was at risk, they failed to trust God.
We often do the same thing. We say we're following Christ, until it becomes too risky. Our desire for security keeps us from taking risks required in following Christ or living life fully. It keeps us from tithing so we can trust in money as a source of security. We even enter into negative relationships as we look to others as a source of security.
The result is that security has become our idol, something we elevate higher than our faith in, and reliance on, God.
In our vain pursuit for security apart from God, we miss the simple fact that only He can truly keep us "secure." Look at what the Bible says about the security we find in God:
"In peace I will lie down and sleep, for you alone, O Lord, will keep me safe" (Psalm 4:8).
"The Lord is my light and my salvation— so why should I be afraid? The Lord is my fortress, protecting me from danger, so why should I tremble?" (Psalm 27:1).
"But all who listen to me will live in peace, untroubled by fear of harm" (Proverbs 1:33).
And 2 Timothy 1:7 says, "For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline."
In fact, there is a theme throughout scripture that those who trust in the Lord have nothing to fear, regardless of the circumstances they may face in life. Security is not found in the content of our circumstances, but in the reality of our faith in God.
Is security your idol, or a result of your trust in God?
Thursday, November 18, 2010
Yet, my "mood" to write tempts me to take up one of the subjects anyway.
But I think I'll pass.
Sometimes, the best choice is to wait until we can do our best at what we're considering doing. Too often we simply indulge our urges with the outcome being a mediocre result. We settle for less in order to splurge on our urges.
We do this in profound things, such as our relationships, our careers, and even in our service to God. And we do this in simple things, from food choices to selecting activities. We take the cheap result of indulging the moment rather than waiting until we're prepared to produce the best.
Indulgence always brings a cheap result. A little more discipline can lead to greater impact and the potential for excellence.
Monday, November 15, 2010
For a while before turning a teenager, I had the chance to live on a huge ranch in Northern Arizona.
The Diamond Bar was a historic "old Arizona" ranch spreading across 896,000 acres. The ranch house was about 37 miles beyond the tiny town of Dolan Springs, where you would find a dirt road taking you the 7.5 miles to the house.
Directly in front of the house was a massive garden with some fruit tress, and beyond that stood "Crown Mountain" (actually named Spirit Mountain). At least, that's the name I gave to the small mountain that looked as if a crown had been placed around it's top.
Getting to the top of the mountain was quite a trek that took in some beautiful country. The only way to get there was by traveling a rough road that was more a well-worn set of tracks than a dirt road. The tracks would alternate between dirt and rock, and wound it's way through the rugged country. On the way, the road eventually ran alongside a barbed wire fence separating the ranch from the Hualapai Indian Reservation. At that point, you could look far off to the right and see a few ridges of the Grand Canyon.
As you continued the slow trek over the rocks and bumps, twists and turns of the road, you would often see cattle grazing openly, and occasionally spot wild horses that ran freely on the ranch. It wouldn't be surprising to spot a fox on the journey, and you would almost always see several deer as you neared the top of the mountain.
When you finally reached the top, you arrived at the edge of the "crown" to take in an awe-inspiring view of Lake Mead, with the little town of Meadview just a speck on the land. Getting to this beautiful vantage point was slow going on a rough road through a beautiful land.
The journey to the top of Crown Mountain reminds me of how Jesus described the journey to life in Matthew 7:13-14, "13 “You can enter God’s Kingdom only through the narrow gate. The highway to hell is broad, and its gate is wide for the many who choose that way. 14 But the gateway to life is very narrow and the road is difficult, and only a few ever find it."
Jesus describes the gateway to life as being narrow, and the road being difficult. We often wrongly interpret that as meaning the journey to life in Christ is harsh and negative. However, I think it's more like that journey to the top of Crown Mountain: a rough road through a beautiful land. While you may have to travel slowly and carefully because of the terrain, there's much beauty to be taken in and enjoyed along the journey.
In fact, the challenge of the terrain that slows you down helps you to be more focused on your surroundings. The slow going allows you to enjoy the experience rather than hustle along just to get to a destination.
The road to life is that way. Sometimes there are bumps and rocks and sharp turns, but the slow going provides for a journey that offers panoramic views of grace, mercy, love, and the many other facets of life in Christ.
It's a very different path than the broad, smooth highway that provides a quick, uninterrupted trip to hell. But passing through the narrow gate and traveling on the more difficult road provides a vastly superior journey and destination.
Which road are you traveling? Are you enjoying the ride?
Saturday, November 13, 2010
It's a funny thing to watch. The dog runs madly in pursuit of the vehicle, barking viciously as if giving warning to the auto as to what it will do if it catches it.
Although I've seen several dogs chase cars, I've never seen one catch a car.
Have you ever wondered what the dog would do if it actually caught the car it chased?
Would it nip at the tires? Chip a tooth on a bumper? Or, more likely, turn tail and run because it actually had to face the car?!
A lot of human beings say they are "chasing" --- or searching for --- God. But what if you actually caught Him?
What if God just stopped and let you walk up to Him? What if God actually allowed you to interact with Him? What if God Himself provided a means for you to know and commune with Him?
What would you do?
The Good News of Jesus Christ is that God longs for relationship with us. Not only is He not running away from us (and therefore doesn't have to be chased), but He has come to us! He allows for personal interaction with Him, and He has provided the means for us to know Him personally and intimately.
All those who are earnestly searching for God can find Him. James 4:8a says, "Come close to God, and God will come close to you ..." So now what will you do?
Thursday, November 11, 2010
Los Angeles will never be known for having the cleanest, clearest air of most metropolitan areas, but it is much cleaner and clearer than it used to be.
Some years ago I had a flight into Los Angeles. Prior to arriving in the city, I enjoyed looking out the airplane window at the beauty of the skies and just taking in the majesty of God's creation. Then came the descent into Los Angeles.
The scene changed dramatically!
From the crisp beauty of the blue skies, we gradually entered into air so dirty it was hard to see much of the city with sharp clarity. There was nothing beautiful or enticing about the new scenery into which the airplane was descending. I felt my mood change from one of worship when taking in the beauty of God's handiwork, to a concern about having to breathe what was outside the window I was looking out of.
The ugly brown haze hanging over the city like a heavy, wet blanket did not make arriving at my destination very enticing. While my work and relationships waited for me amid the dinge of the concrete sprawl, I longed to be back up among the wonder of beauty where everything seemed so peaceful.
Life is often like that flight.
Sometimes we find ourselves landing in environments that have been messed up by humanity, places that have been polluted and abused by people pursuing their own agendas at the expense of those around them. Yet just beyond the discouraging scenes of wastefulness remains the beauty of God's work. It still surrounds us, even when we can't see it. Yet knowing it is there feeds our hope of something better just beyond the horizon, and just ahead sometime in our future.
The Apostle Paul encourages us to keep our thoughts on the more beautiful things. Look at what he wrote in Philippians 4:8-9, "8 And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise. 9 Keep putting into practice all you learned and received from me—everything you heard from me and saw me doing. Then the God of peace will be with you."
Whatever situation or environment we find ourselves in, we can experience the purity and beauty of God's work, no matter the scenery around us. if our thoughts are fixed on Him.
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
What's a core source for the frustration many feel toward God?
I was reminded of this when responding to a message sent to me on Facebook from a friend. I was happy to hear she was drawing closer to accomplishing something she had been dreaming about, thinking about, praying about, planning for, and taking action toward for a long time. Now that the dream was nearing becoming reality, "nerves" were setting in. Here's a part of my response:
"... it's a common thing what you're feeling. It's one thing to run everything through our wishes, wants, dreams and thoughts, as though they were real. It's quite another when they actually become real and have to be lived! So take heart that you now have hopes turning into reality, and take confidence that God's provision comes in the living out of a thing more than the thinking through of it."
We often approach the dreams God gives us by wanting the entire picture and provision provided up front. When that doesn't happen, we allow doubts and fears to wear away at the dream, often resulting in a great loss of time, or loss of action, or losing the dream altogether.
But more often than not, God doesn't start our dreams with an advance installment of the needed provisions! He starts by giving us the dream, which then needs to be thought through (reasonably understood), prayed through, planned for, and finally executed. Yet, we often fail to do these things until God supplies the provision!
It's cart-before-the-horse thinking.
If it is God who gives us a dream, He will then also supply us with the means to accomplish it. But the supply of the means usually comes when needed. That reality challenges us to step out in faith and act first, trusting God that what is needed will be provided for when needed. We would rather have God put "supply" in a warehouse first, so we know it's there. But God does something better: He assures us that He will meet the needs of the dreams He gives, and His assurance is greater than a warehouse full of provision!
Are you acting on your dreams, or waiting for provision? Are you stepping out in faith, trusting God and His timing? What can you do to make sure you have the "horse before the cart"?
Thursday, November 4, 2010
Have you ever wondered why late night television seems to be riddled with infomercials for exercise equipment and the latest, greatest, trendiest exercise videos?
It seems odd that during the time when most people are sleeping or suffering from insomnia, all the infomercials for improving your fitness are broadcast. A few nights ago I noticed a new commercial, one advertising food delivery directly to your home to help guarantee you will lose weight. It seems the concept behind the idea is that people exercise so little personal discipline that if you're really going to lose weight, you need to have specific meals delivered to your home to control content and portion size.
While the concept may seem appealing to some, the bottom line in weight loss and weight management is you'll never lose or manage your weight until you apply self-control over what and how much you eat.
All too often we approach other areas of our lives with the same concept as that commercial ... we splurge and indulge rather than exercise personal discipline, which keeps our lives somewhat (or seriously) out of control. If we're serious about making changes, making improvements, or truly growing as a person, we must come to the place where we purposely and consistently exercise self-control in our lives.
Jesus not only taught that personal discipline was important, He was rather radical about it. Look at the examples He offered as recorded in Matthew 5:29-30, "29 So if your eye—even your good eye—causes you to lust, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. 30 And if your hand—even your stronger hand—causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell." What's the point? Sometimes you need to exercise radical discipline to make sure you do what really needs to be done.
The idea of personal discipline isn't something that we finally apply when things are falling apart. Instead, the Apostle Paul identifies self-discipline as a basic characteristic of the true follower of Christ. Look at what Paul wrote in 2 Timothy 1:7, "For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline."
Is self-discipline a consistent characteristic of your life? How can you exercise self-discipline more consistently to have a fuller life in Christ?
Wednesday, November 3, 2010
One reason why the church is lacking in making an impact on lives is because it has internalized the "genie in the bottle" complex.
What I mean by that is, first we act quite impersonally with God. We often don't want a personal relationship with God, we want a "genie in a bottle" on whom we can call to fix tough problems in our lives and miraculously blink what we want into existence. It's a very impersonal way of approaching God.
But we have gone beyond that and internalized that attitude. Now, it's fairly common to see "good deeds" or "acts of kindness" by both churches or individual Christians being offered very impersonally ... or more specifically, without relationship. We may do something to help someone, or show up to offer some service to others, but then bail once the deed is done, leaving no trace of real relationship (or loving interaction) behind.
God has not called us to be deed-doers, He's called us to love the lost to Him and serve one another! The church cannot be the body of Christ without extending the love of Christ, and that requires genuine interaction with others. When Jesus healed the leper, He reached out and touched him, and when He healed the blind man, He reached out and touched his eyes ... He went beyond accomplishing the deed to connecting with the person.
We've long been used to showing up to "church" on Sunday mornings and being friendly with people we have nothing to do with except on Sunday mornings, yet think we're actually "friends." That behavior is nothing more than weekly acquaintances.
Now, in an attempt to encourage people to serve others in their local communities, many churches are taking a Sunday each month and going out into the community to do good deeds on a Sunday morning instead of having the regular worship service. While the focus on, and encouragement of, service is a positive thing, what is often happening is a "good deed" is being done and then the servers move on to the next task to be completed the following month. No relationships are nurtured in process of serving.
That is not "Christian service."
All that Jesus Christ did for us flowed from a genuine love and was relationship-oriented. He's not a holy handyman who appears to make repairs. He works in our lives because He loves us and desires an intimate relationship with us. That is the example of how we need to minister to others in His name. We need to serve like Jesus served.
What that means for us as Christians is we need to make time for people. We have to get past all of the excuses, and even the good reasons, we have for being so busy and create time to build relationships that flow from our love for Christ and others. Unless we do, our deeds ring hollow.
Do you have love-based relationships with your brothers and sisters in Christ? When you serve others, do you make the time to connect with the person, or are you just accomplishing a deed? How can you better extend yourself in relationship to others?
Saturday, October 30, 2010
The security alarms weren't working!
The 12-inch square painting of yellow and red flowers had been cut from its frame in the museum. Egypt's top prosecutor said all the alarms at the museum and 36 of the 43 security cameras had been broken for some time, thus leaving a great masterpiece vulnerable to easy theft.
It would seem the simplest of common sense that such a valuable treasure should be well protected. Beyond art, or any earthly treasure, scripture says we are God's masterpiece (Ephesians 2:10) and that He does not leave our care in lax hands. Psalm 97:10 gives us these words of security and comfort:
"You who love the Lord, hate evil! He protects the lives of his godly people and rescues them from the power of the wicked."
In John 10:10, we read these words of Jesus, "The thief’s purpose is to steal and kill and destroy. My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life."
Unlike the thieves in the museum, the chief of thieves --- Satan --- cannot escape the watchfulness of God who guards the lives of His children. God protects His masterpiece, and in His hands we have true security.
Have you accepted the safety offered you from God? Do you place your security in God, or do you leave yourself vulnerable to thieves who attempt to lure you and steal away your heart?
Wednesday, October 27, 2010
When Christians could have made a real difference in my friends' life, they failed him miserably.
One of my close friends who I have known for a couple decades faced the challenge of prostate cancer a while back. I was out-of-state and didn't have the opportunity to be there directly for him.
What was difficult about the situation is that he is no longer walking with God. He used to. He had raised his children as a Christian father should, even insisted in having them in Christian school. He had risen to being a Deacon in the church, and was very active in serving others. For a while, he thought he might be called to ministry, and took some classes at a Bible college. He was active in helping me plant a church, and was a thoroughly reliable friend.
Since then, he has gone through a divorce and now is living with a woman, and has changed in other ways. He likes to think that although God may not be happy with him, he's still "safe."
Then came the scare with cancer.
As he battled through his treatment, not a single Christian friend showed up to support him through his struggle. He got a few calls and cards, but not one Christian friend found their way to his home or the hospital to help him through a very difficult time.
But many of his new non-Christian friends did. They showed up in droves and supported him through his entire treatment. His non-Christian friends did everything his Christian friends should have but didn't. So why should he change his ways and return to those who really did not care?
As I talked to my friend about this, it seemed obvious the one thing he had longed for was his Christian friends to be there for him. Although he knows he isn't living right, he still knows what is and isn't right, and I think he was hoping his Christian friends would love him through his struggle regardless of the poor choices he was making. I believe he may have been influenced to repent had his Christian friends demonstrated true Christlikeness.
But they didn't.
Sadly, this difficult struggle during my friend's life was a time when it seemed as though the ungodly were more godly than those calling themselves followers of Christ. But to actually be a follower of Christ, you must actually follow Christ! You have to walk in His steps and do what Christ would do.
1 Peter 2:21 says, "To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps."
To be a genuine follower of Christ is to live out the example He provided for us. Just as He suffered for us, we may have to suffer for Him and for others. It will cost you to get out of your home, travel to the hospital and spend time at the bedside of a sick friend. It will cost you to bring meals to a sick friend's home. It will cost you to actually, truly care and love and serve and help.
But it will make an immeasurable impact in the lives of others, and will fulfill you more than anything this world could ever offer.
Are you following Christ's example? Are you walking in His steps? What changes will you make today to put you into His footsteps to be an authentic follower?
Wednesday, October 20, 2010
Today may not be the greatest day of your life ... and that's okay!
I had a fellow following me on Twitter, and every day he would post a tweet saying that today was going to be the greatest day of his life. His statement came from a school of thought often promoted by positive thinking "gurus" that we should make every day better than the next.
But not every day is going to be better than the next.
I challenged my Twitter friend about his statement. When he again posted that today was going to be the greatest day of his life, I asked if it was going to be better than the day he realized he was in love with the woman he married. I asked if it was going to be better than the day he married the love of his life. I asked if it was going to be better than the day he accepted Christ as his Savior. I asked if the day was going to be better than the day his first child was born ... and I challenged his statement in a few more ways.
His response? He unfollowed me on Twitter!
My intent wasn't to make they guy mad, but to challenge the honesty of the statement. I think he had been taught to quote his comment about each day without ever really thinking about it. God has some great plans and some fantastic blessings in store for us in this life, but each day isn't going to be our greatest. Some days are normal, or routine, or even mundane. Not every day is stacked with such "awesomeness" that it is the greatest day of our lives.
Life wasn't intended to be a race to make every day greater than the previous day. Sometimes, life is to be lived in the shadow of better times. Sometimes, today is rich because of drawing on our memories of great times we have already experienced, and enjoying those as we journey forward to future great times. Taking time to savor the great times we have already experienced helps bring richness and fullness to our lives during those times we're in the valley.
So if today isn't the greatest day of your life, that's okay. Appreciate the great ones you've had, continue to move forward to new great experiences, and make the most of what God has in mind for you today.